Wednesday, September 16, 2026

Another Year - Yippie!

 I love birthdays. I love when you look at the calendar or now your phone and you see your date. It has always made me feel special, like the day was meant for me. I guess it is and well -maybe all the other people with your birthday.

I have been lucky enough to make it for another revolution around the sun. Hello 66. Medicare and Social Security payments all done for a year now. That was a process and a half!

Every now and then you experience one that kind of makes you notice the aging process. 25 was one. I know - you were NOT expecting that one were you? I think 25 kind of hit me that I was not a college kid anymore, but a married woman teaching school. I also agreed to teach 9th grade girls in Sunday School that year and they thought of me as older. 30 did not phase me, but 32 did. I realized I was the same age as my dad when he died and I looked at my children and thought about how hard it must have been for him to lay there with cancer and know he would not be there for me to grow up. 32 was perhaps the age that messed with me most, but what came out of it was to never think of aging as anything other than a blessing!

 Along came 65. Physically, I  think I have felt this one the most. I think it seemed overnight that I had a big change in my energy level. I simply can't do what I once did. I have had to slow my roll and pace the tasks. I also noticed a physical change in my appearance. It seems the wrinkles are just suddenly very noticeable. I have never been on to whine about aging. Aging is a true gift and I think we should set an example for the younger crowd of aging gracefully. Goodness knows the world is full of everyone trying to tuck and cream there way to everlasting beauty.

Now let's talk about beauty. I don't think getting old means you lose your beauty. It just looks different. I think Ali McGraw is perhaps one of the most beautiful older ladies I have ever seen. She hasn't followed the Hollywood way. In my opinion, she has aged gracefully.

I have a whole Pinterest page devoted to cute hairstyles and cuts with gray hair. I let mine go gray at age 41. I had enough of that coloring thing. I think it is especially hard to color your hair when you have black/brown hair. Highlights don't look like they do when you have lighter hair.

I will admit to purchasing some cream this year for my face. I have never ever been good about taking care of my skin. I woke up one morning this year and it was like those wrinkles were screaming at me. But Ali has wrinkles in that picture above and I think they are life lines.

But, I did buy me some Clinque daytime cream and some nighttime cream. Remembering to put it on was an issue at first but I getting there. 


I have worn Clinique since I was in college. In high school, I wore Maybelline mascara in the pink and green container. Most of you girls in your 60's know it. I also wore Cover Girl blush pictured below.


That blush was amazing. 
I started wearing Clinique in college and other than my small stint in the late 80's with Beauty Control after having my colors done I have stuck with it. You can see from my little dish above I have tried several other blushes trying to get one with less harsh chemicals, but for now that Clinque Chubby Stick is my absolute favorite blush. It is most like that old Cover Girl one. On the tray are some A'del and Ilia colors. I like both, but Clinque is still my favorite.

I had my colors done in 1986 and honestly I have stuck to that pretty much my whole life. I can tell those colors work best for me. Below is the page from the book of my colors.


Here are my spring summer tops and you can see many are true to my colors.
When I wear things from the color palette I am brighter in the face. I have a very dark complexion in my face which....


has made wearing foundation my hardest piece of the puzzle. I have had good skin. Other than the wrinkles it is still good skin, but I feel awful in foundation so I have pretty much accepted that and it is a rare occasion that I put it on. I keep a little extra items in the drawer.

Below is the color palette for the face. This is where Clinique comes to my aid as well. 


I have given up their eye shadows (well I do still have some in my drawer). I find they are beautiful but make my eyes itch after the days lingers on.

Way more about aging that you thought you were getting - huh?!

I still think walking is perhaps the best exercise out there. I went out to the beach in the morning after picking up Valerie on my birthday. The water was like a blue green pool. I wanted to stay, so...


I went back later that day for a beach walk.


My favorite place doing what I love to do...strolling in the water's edge.


The family all came over on Sunday to celebrate. Jeff made jambalaya and picked up pastries from the local French bakery that is honestly too good for my good. 

I am so blessed. Lindsay took mine and Jeff's picture.

In accepting that I am always critical of my photos I am going to do better about posting them.



Here's to 66 and being grateful for another year. 

Maybe I need to figure out which foundation Ali McGraw wears and I will be set. All that said, I rarely wear anything on a daily basis. Perks of retirement. I will pop on blush and lipstick for a run to the grocery store.

Gracefully and gratefully aging,
Sandy



20 comments:

  1. Happy birthday!! I'm hitting 75 this year and I am feeling it more than the past few. That said, I also feel blessed as each year rolls around. You look fabulous, by the way!! Wishing you a blessed year ahead!! xo

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  2. Belated happy birthday! My 74th is today! Like you, this year I noticed more wrinkles, and it is bothersome. Please post if you find a good foundation - all seem wrong in one way or another, often too yellow in their undertones. Love your white hair, and the picture with your husband is wonderful!

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    1. I will let you know if I come across a good foundation. I put some of my old on half of my face the other day and left the other side without. I felt more myself with nothing but I would still like to find some for a special occasion, but from the comments it seems we are all thinking the same thing.

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  3. Happy Birthday! I will be 65 this December! Unlike you I've never much cared for birthdays, perhaps because they were never made much of when I was little and the fact that my birthday is two days after Christmas I seemed to get presents that were clumped together for both Chirstmas and birthday.
    I made sure I NEVER did that with my daughters and one grandson who have birthdays in December, I know how hurtful it can be. I remeber turning 30 hit me, hated being 30, it felt old somehow, lol.
    I stopped wearing foundation years ago and don't miss it, I don't use expensive makeup but I have always had a good skin care routine and prefer the Liz Earle range of face wash day and night cream.
    Touch wood. I don't have too many wrinkles at the moment, I can thank my mum for passing on the good skin gene, she always had wonderful skin and not many wrinkles even in later life. I do still have my hair coloured, I love grey hair, and I always think your's looks lovely but I don't hink mine would be a nice grey, if you know what i mean.

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    1. Oh my goodness, I feel your pain about a December birthday. There was a guy I knew in college who had a Christmas Day birthday. I thought his mom was genius because she did a half year birthday for all his growing up years. They celebrated on June 25th instead. Maybe you should give yourself a half year birthday treat each year.
      My mom was strawberry blonde and her hair really never looked like it was turning gray, just became more blonde than strawberry.

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  4. Happy Birthday Sandy! I think you look great!! You have beautiful coloring! I also love that picture of Ali McGraw...she is a timeless beauty. I love that she has kept her own natural beauty and not messed up her face with plastic surgery and plumped lips. (I hate that look!) My 76th birthday is next week, so I am 10 years older than you! And yes, I look in the mirror and see the tell-tale signs of aging, but I've earned every wrinkle and gray hair (which still aren't too many considering my age, but redheads don't seem to gray as fast apparently...we just fade away). I am thankful to still be alive and mostly well. You are blessed to have your grandchildren close by to keep you active as well. And walking on the beach is a perfect way to spend your birthday, even the visit with sweet little Valerie! That's a real blessing indeed! May God bless you with many more happy birthdays. Every day is a gift!

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    1. I can’t believe what so many ladies do to their faces all to look young. No thanks! I will go with aging.
      My mom’s side of the family is all the redheads. Mom’s was strawberry blonde so she just turned more blonde than strawberry as she aged. 3 of her sisters are auburn colored but all had varying degrees of gray, but definitely less than my dad’s side where we are all prematurely gray. I still say natural is better though.

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  5. Yes, make up changes as we age...sometimes I think it makes me look older.lol I think you look great !!

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    1. Thus far I am liking less as I age. I actually put my old foundation on half my face the other day and left half natural. I felt more like myself without so u til something strikes me that is where I am staying.

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  6. Happy, happy birthday, dear Sandy! It's a wonderful time of year to celebrate (unlike my own mid-January bitter cold day :). Your hair is lovely! And the colors you wear perfectly compliment your hair and complexion. I remember that "having your colors done" craze--not sure if I ever figured out what I truly was and my hair keeps getting blonder thanks to my hairdresser so I'm not sure the same colors would work now. I am in total agreement with you on walking being the best exercise! It's so great for both physical and mental health... I'm sure taking extra good care of your skin is very important in sunny FL--you look fabulous and I wish you every happiness in your coming year! Happy 66th! ♥

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    1. I definitely need walking for the mental as much as physical but I am convinced it is just the best exercise to keep you active. The heat has been hard lately so I could actually use a cool down.. I probably should have thought more about that skin in the Florida sun when I was younger but I didn’t. My face is ok, but my legs are full of age spots.

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  7. Happy Birthday, Sandy! I was ten years old when you were born, so you are YOUNG! Enjoyed your statements about your personal colors and how you wear them. That subject has fascinated me for many years.

    Thanks, too, for sharing your beach walk with us. Gary is not a fan of the beach, so I can't tell you when was the last time my feet walked in the seaside sand. That's okay, just let me look at it and I'm pretty much okay with that. I added the link to an Amelia Island beach cam to the left column on my blog (did that just a few days ago) so I can "go to the beach" whenever I want.

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    1. Jeff can’t walk on the beach as easily anymore but truthfully it has never been his favorite thing either. Fortunately I have a good friend who likes the beach like I do so we go out sometimes together. Jeff does take me and wait on me to walk. I suppose scrolling on his phone occupies him, but he is a good one

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  8. Happy Birthday, Sandy! Having turned 67 this year, I relate to much of what you wrote about here. I've never worn heavy make-up, but I used to feel naked without foundation and a bit of powder blush. I imagine it was 10 years or so ago, I gave up tinted liquid foundation when I found Rimmel Stay Matte Primer. I bought it to combat the shine on my oily skin (at 67, my skin is still oily). I discovered that I loved the look of the primer all by itself. I think it smooths out some of the imperfections and gives a natural look. And the cream doesn't get lodged in my wrinkles/creases. I don't know if it works for every skin type, but I've loved it as a "foundation" for my oily skin.

    Always love your beach pictures. I think that would be an amazing place to walk. :)

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    1. Jeff can’t walk on the beach as easily anymore but truthfully it has never been his favorite thing either. Fortunately I have a good friend who likes the beach like I do so we go out sometimes together. Jeff does take me and wait on me to walk. I suppose scrolling on his phone occupies him, but he is a good one

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  9. Happiest birthday wishes! What a lovely post as you celebrate another year. So much wisdom!! I hear so much about Clinque but have never worn or tried any of their make-up (I do like that Happy perfume!) I believe I am a winter as well (but maybe a soft winter??) but I struggle with how to apply that information. I hope you enjoyed your special day...and here's to all that the Lord has in store for this next year ahead!!

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    1. had my colors done way back then and I am definitely an easy see. I am a true winter and it shows up even now pretty dramatically with the correct colors. The makeup from Beauticontrol way back then was a super match too. I try to replicate it as much as I can with Clinique. I have used eye makeup from several companies and I find that if I have to order, it is so hard to get it right. I don't wear enough to warrant the expense. I usually only wear "my face" to church and special events.

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Sincerely,
Sandy