Tuesday, April 7, 2020

Blogville Part 2

I am back for another post today. Warning: the last post had ALL the pictures...this one is words.

More of what I have done with my quarantine time and what I am going to do.

I read last night that the peak along the Gulf Coast or at least our area is 12 more days and that is if everyone continues to practice social distancing. I am doing my part. I think a good many are and with that goes some terrible financial losses for our tourist community. More about that in a minute.

I shared we do a lot of texting and sharing photos between the family. Poor Paul Allen is missing his sports. His is baseball and the Atlanta Braves. He was watching an old New Orleans Saints game of football last night. His other team. We all like the Masters golf tournament. I saw where they were planning to play it in November. The Masters in November just doesn't have quite the ring to it as April with the azaleas blooming.

On that note, while Jeff and I were floating in the bay Sunday afternoon we were thankful we hadn't bought football season tickets to Auburn this coming year. That decision had to be made quite a while back and to make a long story short our source was doing something different and we were going to have to pay a good bit more so we decided we would just go to a few of them and buy them like we used to do...one at a time. I think Lindsay was sad but she understood. She was more sad about giving up the superb aisle seats we have had for the past few years. Anyway - I am not sure we will go to any this year. Maybe just go to Auburn and watch on our back porch and listen to the crowd or maybe lack of crowd???


so many things different.

I have gotten to the point where I can think about this thing without trying to analyze when it might end or how bad the fall out is going to be. I am thinking more now about how to live each day, pick up the pieces when it is done, and how is it changing me. I am starting to make a mental list of those changes. I think it will get long so it may turn into a written list at some point on paper. I know it has changed me and will continue to change me.

I want to note the good as well as the bad changes. I want to savor the good ones such as a slower pace and gratefulness for my many blessings both material and otherwise.

I have been cooking lots and exercising so I have actually lost a couple of pounds. That is certainly a benefit.

Let's talk exercise shall we.
I got healthier a few years back and prior to Tucker coming along I was going to the gym regularly. I didn't like it ever one bit, but I did it. I liked the results it brought, but not going every day to the actual gym. I went to a gym that was actually within walking distance from my home. A 24 hour gym but full mostly of men. They never wiped down a machine or even thought about all their stinky sweat on stuff. At the time, I carried a plastic container that looked like Clorox wipes with me, but of alcohol and wiped everything down BEFORE I touched anything.

I am so full of words y'all.

The young man who ran would ask me about it, but he never made any changes or kept his own wipe machines (which were all over the building) REGULARLY stocked. He did finally get one central one and kept it better stocked but do you think any of those old men ever wiped anything down. Like I said- I cleaned 'em before I got on them:)

Tucker came along and I just got out of the routine. I was too tired to go at night and I am NOT a morning person or at least that early.
I walked and even bought me a set of light weights to use, but mostly I was tired and lazy.

Three weeks ago, I decided I had to make sure I was fit so I started browsing Youtube for exercise videos. I have done this before and never liked any of them UNTIL this time I saw one for over 50 ladies and I haven't come across one yet that makes you sit on the floor. That is the kiss of death for me.

Ladies, if you are looking for a moderate workout that will help you stay flexible, a little cardio, a little light weights, and balance exercise ----oh and if you are over 50 then you might like Pahla B Fitness.
I have put the one I first saw and did. I did the same one for a week every other day. I find with my RA that I can't do anything every day. IT is just too much for me. I overdo and then I am not worth a flitter sticks later. I have been doing some of her others. I do what I can. I also walk in the neighborhood.


The weights she uses are the heavier set than I have. I have a set like hers but mine are 2, 3, and 5 pounds. I used the 2 pound ones for this workout. It was all my shoulder joints could stand at first. I will probably build up to larger ones later. I got mine on Amazon same as her, just smaller weights. I really like them.

I am going to try and squeeze in one more thought tonight and maybe come back again.

I saw a headline for an article for which I did NOT read that said churches could be in trouble. I didn't read it because I have had all the negative I can handle. I am looking for some positivity.

I don't agree with the title and don't even know if the author of the article did. I think God is going to use this for good if we let him. IF we Christians act like Jesus. The first century Christians rocked the world and set the stage for us without a building.

We are blessed to live in an age where we can still do church. I miss the people more than I even realized I would. I miss my girls that I work with on Sunday morning. 

I sent a text to our church staff this morning. I am friends with our pastor and his wife. We helped plant our church so this is not that unusual that I have all their numbers. I thanked them for all their hard work to make church amazing online. They are all working so hard to make it work. 

I have met with my small group using Zoom. I have watched my pastor's daughter lead songs on Instagram stories for kids. The leaders have put so many wonderful resources and videos of Bible stories and songs for the kids to watch on Sunday morning. They are having church too online. I have watched soooo many young families sharing that they are watching with their kids on Instagram. God is alive and He is going to move with or without that building because of people.

My own daughter says Tucker loves his "church" at home. I have no doubt these young families will return when they can.

I saw another cute thing on Instagram stories today. I still follow this teacher from Texas and she has a young teenage son. His youth minister and a few others drove by honking and carrying on out the car window to celebrate his birthday. He turns and says to his mom that he can't believe they are doing that for him. His mother states she is in tears. You can bet they have been touched and she even stated how much she loves her church.

That is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The article is a little short-sided as I have been too ---God is a big God. Way bigger than my brain can understand.

When I start thinking about the financial fall out from all of this and people not working I am trying to remind myself that the body of Christ and the "church" will have a duty to show up and help in more ways than we can count. If we do that, churches won't be in trouble. 

Revival in America and around the world can happen.

I am scared. Yep --- you bet. I am not for one minute gonna tell you I am not. I have a big God and He is faithful, but it is ok to be scared. 
Shoot---that may be why there are so many verses in the Bible that say Do not fear....cuz it is real hard!!!

Anyway, I sent that text to thank the staff for what they are doing and to reassure them. I think it was very much appreciated. You might not have your staff on speed dial, but I am sure your church has an email. Send them a note and let them know you are thankful for their efforts...just a thought.

We will observe Communion online Friday. I know several did it Palm Sunday.
I think that is awesome.

I also read from Pamela on Closed Doors, Open Windows and was reminded about having my own sunrise service. Jeff and I are going to get up and watch the sun come up Easter Sunday from our deck and then later watch our church online. Who knows?! maybe I will wake up the bayou singing 
"Up from the grave he arose;
with a mighty triumph o'er his foes;
he arose a victor from the dark domain,
and he lives forever, with his saints to reign.
He arose! He arose! Hallelujah! Christ arose!"

Well, that is it for another night.
I told y'all I was wordy. I will be back again very soon.
Sandy

Monday, April 6, 2020

Blogville Part 1

I am checking in today doing my part for Blogville to have more to read. I have a lot to say today, so you are going to get as much as I think I can fit in one post and I will be back later in the week to continue. 
I am a thinker and a reflective person by nature and this has taken me some time to process my thoughts. I have found I can never write (which is one of my favorite hobbies) until I have had time to think through something.
Now, I have in no way figured this Coronavirus situation out or have any wise words, but my thoughts are not quite as crazy as they were last week. I will elaborate as I go.

I am going to do a flower post later this week because I am using my blog to journal this continuing process of my hobby of playing in the dirt, but I have to share two photos.

You may remember this past fall I dug up the roses. I gave up on it and came to terms with the fact that I didn't have the proper conditions at my home for a rose garden. I had one rose that survived until September last year. I threw her in a big bucket and placed her on the bottom deck and said, "Good luck, Miss Oklahoma." She has survived and flourished. She has given me two beautiful blooms over the weekend. Bless her heart...she filled me with gladness.


And like clockwork, the day lilies are starting to bloom. The first one this 6th day of April, 2020.

Luke 12:27 New American Standard Bible (NASB)

27 Consider the lilies, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; but I tell you, not even Solomon in all his glory clothed himself like one of these.

I have stitched and am saving all of this for you later in the week. I am still scattered in my stitching, but I did buckle down and get this one done. 
Arlene (at Nanaland), you would get a chuckle if you could have seen me this evening. Bluebird is headed your way. I ventured out of my home for the first time in over three weeks to mail you this pattern and a surprise. Jeff allowed it!! Don't worry!! He has done all the shopping for over three weeks and done everything and anything to make sure I am safe. He drove me to the post office this evening after hours so I could use the machine. I went in armed with my mask,  a washed and dried reused Ziplock bag to use as a glove. I touched nothing without the baggie. Then I drenched myself with hand sanitizer back in the truck. Then washed down when I got home, so I was safe.


On and one more note on stitching, Mrs. T of Across My Kitchen Table sent me a sunflower button for my bunny stitch. It was the perfect finish for this piece, so like I said I have a stitching post coming later in the week. I can't thank her enough for such a sweet gesture.

So, let's talk about daily life on this quarantine time.

Jeff and I have done a lot of porch sitting. Spring is just amazing in our neck of the woods. He worked outside some Friday evening and Saturday morning, picking up the remaining leaves from the annual March leaf drop of the live oaks and pressure washing the stone walls by the garage and downstairs. Friday evening he made us a slushy orange juice and we sat outside. You can see my stitch in hand and my two sidekicks at my feet. Gus is tethered of course because they both want to say hello to everyone and during this time no one wants anyone or any dog near them.


We do a lot of group texting, so the next series of pictures are some that have gone to the family texts (Jeff, me, Tyler, Lindsay, Paul Allen, and Katie) that occur each day.  It gives you a glimpse of life in the Palmer Family.

Saturday, Lindsay, Tyler, and Tucker went for a boat ride. Y'all there is no one here. IT is weird this time of year to see only locals on the water. We are all practicing social distancing of at least 25 feet. I will say everyone is abiding by the rules.

Little Tucker thinks he is driving.

Sunday, Jeff and I went out for a boat ride. It was 75 degrees and Jeff took this picture to show the kids that Mama had on a wrap because it was cold. I did think it was a bit chilly. I grabbed the shawl just as I was going out and glad I did.


We just went out in the middle of the bay and turned the boat off and must have sat there for 45 minutes talking. Yes, we have been together a good bit lately, but I think we both were at a point we were ready to start analyzing and sharing thoughts on this crazy event in life.
I couldn't have written this one in a million years.

I reciprocated with a picture of him.


There has been lots of cooking and sharing of what we have cooked going back and in the family texts. I was preparing breakfast this morning and Jeff snapped this photo to send the kids. Mama has her hair in pigtails. He thought that worth sharing. 


Proof of the insanity of our photos. Here are tonight's meals by all three family units.

Lindsay and Tyler started it with fried rice...

Paul Allen and Katie had egg and Conecuh sausage sandwiches with grits...




And Jeff was in the process of making jambalaya with pasta instead of rice... ours was not quite finished in the picture.

very tasty.

I will leave you with a picture of Tucker that Lindsay sent today. My goodness, I know he is my grandson, but he sure is cute.



I am coming back with part 2...
the more reflective part of what is my noggin...
I told you I had lots to say.
Sandy