Summer...my favorite time of the year. I know I am almost alone in that sentiment, but that is ok. I am soaking up this summer with everything I have in me. When you feel like you skipped an entire summer, you will cherish the one in front of you like it manna from Heaven, and hey, it might just be for me!
I will share about Jacksonville at the end. For now, let's just do one of those old fashioned blog posts that women like to see or at least me on this point. Topic - cleaning and sorting and just all the random stuff of one's week.
After getting back from Jacksonville, I really began to feel like my old teacher days. Oh no, the 4th is over and the summer will almost be over. I need to put my tail in gear and get some things done that hade been saved for summer. I kind of decided I would leave off the beach for the week and get back to that next week. I wanted desperately to clean my windows which got ignored last year entirely. That is not a good thing on the back with the salty air, and they were driving me crazy. I had attempted to clean the ones that I could get to on the upper deck by hand, but I wasn't satisfied. In fact, I wasn't even sure if my old way of doing it would work after a full year of neglect, and that I might have to hire a professional. I have used the kind of Windex that you put on the end of your hose twice a year and that has always kept them clean. I ended up trying the spray kind, but I had to do it two days in a row. Basically, it got off the top layer of grime the first day and during the day looked great, but the next morning I could tell it would take more. I did the same routine again the next day and it is much better. I have two windows downstairs on one side that still have a layer of salty grime. I am going to have to figure out another plan of action for them, but TRUST me I will be back to my regular spring and fall routine. It makes it a much easier job and I have spent entirely too much time on windows due to not doing it last year. One of the perils of waterfront living.
Then I set myself on cleaning out a storage room which we call the "Fishing Room." It is not air conditioned, but just a storage room downstairs with a quick entry from the water. My in-laws kept their Christmas tree and wrapping supplies in there, but for the life of me I don't remember much else being in there. It has a shower in there and that was used by Paul Allen and crew back in middle and high school. We have always used it as the storage for fishing, boating supplies, etc.
Over time it had become a disaster. Jeff is not one to put things back after using them and I won't rat on him too much, because I have my own things to take care of, but that room was killing me. Even though it is not in my line of sight, it was just a royal mess. I set out to tidy it. Not really deal with everything in there, but hopefully get it to a point that Jeff would be interested in organizing it and dealing with the clutter. Now, if I really wanted to show you the bad I would show you a full before, but I actually started before I thought to do that.
You can see the entry door at the bottom of the stairs ajar. The little short door goes under the house. On the other side of the house is a full sized door and we keep yard tools and lawn mower in there. On the fishing room side of the house, it is not tall enough for one to stand up completely, but I almost can. We have some outdoor Christmas decorations in there. Although, I have downsized so much of that. We aren't getting younger, so I have gotten rid of much of those decorations.
As you can see it is a nice storage room and I am lucky to have it. It keeps all those fishing poles out of the garage. I wanted to tidy it enough to bring back in the 2 plastic tubs of inflatables and extra life jackets that are just in the playroom.
I have always wanted to paint it, but that still hasn't happened and it is not happening this summer as I have more pressing things I want to do with the time I have left.
Windows and cleaning out that room have swallowed 3 full days of my time and energy.
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I read a blog post the other day. I think it is one to read. I loved the message of blogging. She called it the old fashioned way, but for those of us who still like blogs I think it is what drew me to them in the first place. I want to get back to that. Even though my time is limited and I am not able to comment and communicate as much as I would like, I think I am going to hop back into it as much as time will allow. I am not going to let my inabilities to do as much as I want to hinder me anymore.
I am going to stop this post here with a little update on our Mayo visit, but I have more to share about the things I notice in just daily life being home. I will say that the past few years have renewed my love for my home. Home is that place where you feel comfortable. I have really embraced home.
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We made it to our Mayo appointment for Jeff. As I said, I didn't know that I would hear anything super special and that turned out to be true. We are trying to adjust to this new thing in our lives. I did enjoy meeting the doctor and while nothing "new" was added I was glad we went. There are different perspectives here in this diagnosis. There is Jeff's, mine, and the kids. Those perspectives are all different. I am working on mine so that I can help with the other's.
I thought the appointment went as well as it could and the doctor is one I am glad we have. We will stay with the Mayo Clinic for now even though it is a long drive. I don't think anything over here is going to match it not even in Pensacola. The medication dosage has been upped which I expected. He has some trials with it and can even up it more and will then meet on a video appointment in 3 months. A wee bit of physical therapy has been ordered to just show him some techniques to help with balance and the kind of shuffle and freezing of feet. The doctor thinks Jeff can do this on his own if he is shown some techniques. We are working on getting that set up in Pensacola where there are more resources than here for such PT.
I wish I could type more about where we are in this journey, but I am just not ready. I am going to share more in the future as I sort out how to best share useful things and honor Jeff.
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Like I said, I plan to blog more even if it is short posts. I will be back in a few days with some stitching and more stuff happening over here in Home Ec Major Land.
Grateful and blessed,
Sandy
Sandy, it is always good to read your posts. You and Jeff (and all) are in my daily prayers. I enjoyed seeing how you store the fishing gear and those great storage cabinets. Sending hugs your way! xo
ReplyDeleteThanks Terri. The storage room is really nice even if I never get to painting it. The room alone does the trick for all the water stuff.
DeleteWill you come and clean at my house when you get everything done at your house? :) We are going out of town next weekend on our trip to the Ark and I need to get my house spic and span so I can come home to a clean home. I also have my cross stitch retreat this week which makes it even more challenging to get everything done. I am glad you are sticking with Mayo..that way you will be on top of the newest treatments. Things are ever changing in medicine.
ReplyDeleteMother went to the ark a few years back. She loved it and I just had a cousin who went and also raved about it.I had a lot of nervous energy to burn off this past week. I will speak more about that at some point.My one disappointment is that more was not spoken about of hope for the future which means I will have to dig in and research and do the fighting for this. I will!
DeleteWhat an adorable fisherman in the last picture, Sandy! Happy to hear the trip to Jacksonville/Mayo was a bit productive even though you figured you wouldn't hear anything better. I hope the PT will help with Jeff's balance and movement of his feet. You both continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteThanks! That little fisherman has grown the fastest of the 3 boys. He is in his independent, “I can do it!” phase.
DeleteYou have been on a mission! I have never tried the spray Windex, but my mama swears by it. I really need to do that myself. I hope the therapy will be of help to Jeff and help him stay sure-footed. I know it's difficult to navigate all of this at times. Continued prayers for y'all. And I miss blogging the old fashioned way. I felt so convicted after reading Sandra's post. I fell down the "let's make money and be a super-blogger" rabbit hole many years ago. However, for the past couple of years, I've tried to get back to just blogging about life. I had fun with it, and I still love to do a little money-making with it, but nothing like before. I'm glad you still stop in to visit mine anyway! Haha! I know the ads can be annoying. I'm still trying to figure out a way to minimize them, but someone else did my blog design and I have no clue how to turn them down a notch. I'll keep digging! I hope you and Jeff have a good week.
ReplyDeleteYou do not have too many ads. I still follow 2 other blogs with ads that have great content and I really don’t even notice your ads. I think the part that I was reminded of was the fact that we just wrote from our hearts and our days. Some of the blogs that went too far and really probably wore themselves out or they went on to having a career with which I don’t blame them; they just lost me. I found myself in the early days of mine trying to write and share pictures of things that weren’t me. I was buying plates and doing tablescapes and all of that stuff ended up at Goodwill. I want to just share the days and be true to myself. As for you with having to stop being a media specialist, having any income from the small amount of ads you have is truly a good thing.
DeleteI like what you said about sharing useful things and still honoring Jeff. That's what a good wife does -- honoring and respecting her husband in all things, and most particularly with tough things. God knows and He gets across to everybody else whatever it is we as individuals need to know.
ReplyDeleteStoring the fishing poles in the shower stall-- that was both cute and humorous to me. Making good use of what you have!
Thanks, Barbara..
DeleteI am glad you will continue blogging - whatever it looks like for you. Thank you for the link to The Diary of a Stay at Home Mom. I stuck a link to it in my sidebar just so I don't loose it before I can explore it more.
ReplyDeleteI love that wonderful storage room you have, and like the others, I found the fishing poles in the shower to be amusing. A perfect spot, I'm thinking! Praying Jeff's new therapies will be a big help. And that picture of your little fisherman is adorable.
Thanks Becki. I think we learn so much from each other. I am glad I found you. I have learned much.
DeleteHi Sandy: I am a summer lover, even if it is in the nineties, I can adjust, I have also been cleaning and getting rid of Un useful items, it feels so good, I love that the poles are in the shower it gave me a smile.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about Jeff and any other problems that you or family members are having, it does break my heart to hear this, I am a care giver for Mike, he has neuropathy in his hands and feet which we know he will lose ability to use someday when the nerves finally die, it is so hard to see him this way, but our vows were in sickness and in health which many couples are removing from their vows, so sad.
Gus is a good helper to you and so adorable, Mikey sends hugs to Gus.
Totally love your grandson fishing so cute.
Catherine
You said it Catherine. Our vows were in sickness and health. I hate watching Jeff not be able to do things he once did, but I am happy to help and we will walk forward. You give Mikey a good petting from us too.
DeleteI would love to borrow some of your energy and get some large projects done up here! I've been so busy this month with my grandson and his family that nothing is getting done. It sure looks like you're making progress and have good plans for more progress. Looks like your home has great storage, too--lucky you! I'm glad you have access to the wonderful care at Mayo! I'm sure the PT will work wonders, too. I've seen friends have great results from weekly sessions. Your little Miles is just darling in that last photo. How wonderful to have all those opportunities like fishing, boating, etc with the water literally outside your door! Enjoy your day, Sandy! ♥
ReplyDeleteI love where I live. We love the water and beach so it suits our family well. Little Miles is an independent one. He doesn't want any help:)
DeleteI have slept well with all of my cleaning out, but I am getting to some things that have been left undone for quite a while.